There are three levels to a person. When someone looks after you. When you look after yourself and when you look after someone else. The last level is the highest level. Here you give of yourself to make the greater whole. But what happens if you decide not to reciprocate? And what happens if that person is your date?

Even if you don’t like your date it is not an excuse to avoid saying "please" or "thank you". These little gestures speak volumes and are an early indicator if you are worth dating again. Even if things do not work out then you at least realise that this person may recommend you to someone else. You never know where help can come from. It just takes a few words and you can turn a potential failure into success just be giving a little bit of yourself for just a few moments. So to get your free bonus guide on how to deal with selfish date click this hyperlink.