How To Gain Trust In A Relationship
Human beings are not some innate object in a heirarchy dictated by the constrictive methodology of science which in turn is often ruled by human bias. It is the realisation that somone has so much to offer that can create a union which is more than the some of it parts.
However, even with such a realisation marriages fail because people under utilise what they themselves have to offer to their partner. This is because they concentrate on their own immediate needs and how to use somoene else to met them.
There is no doubt that popular media, lack of experience, poor guidance and the absence of role models are to blame for this. However, there is also the innate tendency of human beings to be selfish. This extends from satiating one’s immediate needs to creating an endless stream of wants. It is therefore not surprising that wealth, status and physical appearances instead of fostering marriage are the very same things that can contribute to divorces.
So how can couple bond in a marriage? The answer ironically is not to satiates ones wants but instead to starve them. The less one has then the less one desires. This in turn sensitises one to the needs of their partner. It also enables them to meet those needs because they can develop their personality traits instead of being subject to self centred desires and the avarice generated by popular culture.
Ironically one gets more and not less because this potentially encourages one’s partner to reciprocate so not only is one’s needs likely to be met but one see himself more in his partner. In other words the partners make up the greater whole without sacrificing their individuality and in fact reinforce it by bringing out strengths they didn’t know existed.
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